The Sex-Starved Marriage: Boosting Your Marriage Libido: A Couple's Guide
The Sex-Starved Marriage: Boosting Your Marriage Libido: A Couple's Guide
The Sex-Starved Marriage: Boosting Your Marriage Libido: A Couple's Guide 
The wife’s view of sex affects how her husband feels about her. Unsatisfactory sexual relations are at the root of many marriage problems. In some cases, this is due to the husband’s lack of consideration and understanding of his wife’s physical and emotional needs.
In some cases, it is the wife’s failure to share physically and emotionally in the experience with her husband. The sexual act, willingly and warmly participated in by both husband and wife, should be an intimate expression of the love that they feel for each other.
Emotions rules sexual responsiveness, and if the wife is unresponsive, she may need to review her own attitude toward sex. Frigidity in a wife may be due to a lack of consideration by her husband, but a wife’s indifference also hurts the husband, and a show of distaste may kill his potency or even cause him to feel attracted to someone else. If the wife merely submits, with a couldn’t-care-less attitude, the husband may interpret this as evidence that his wife doesn’t care for him, or that, she must be satisfying herself somewhere.
Husband and wife should not deprive each other of sex. There is no allowance for using sex as a means of punishment or expressing resentment. However, this does not mean that, a wife should submit to some abnormal act that she finds morally repugnant, and a husband who loves and respects his wife would not require her to do so. Love does not behave indecently.
A wife who is dearly loved does not use sex for bargaining purpose. Certainly, not all wives bargain with sex, but some do. In ways that may be subtle, they use sex to gain concessions from their husband.
Generally speaking, if all the other relationships in the marriage are good, that is, if there are love, respect, good communication and understanding, then, sex will not be a problem.
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