Without asking a woman to love her husband, she will only respond to her husband’s love. Since marriage in its essence is an emotional relationship between a male and a female, and this emotion is love, the responsibility for the success or failure of a marriage weighs far heavier upon the man, than it does upon the woman. This is the design of God and it cannot be changed. It is the attempt to reverse roles and responsibility in marriage that has led to frequent breakdowns in the institution of marriage.The most successful marriages are those that give both partners the opportunity to exercise their identity and roles in their interrelationship. For this to work, there must be a head. The man is the head, and the woman must be submissive or obedient to that head.
Take another look at your spouse. Learn to understand each other within the basic structure, which you really are. Listen to know yourself so you can fulfil the role for which you were intended.
Do not confuse yourself with your spouse nor expect from your spouse what you are. Marriage is not a competition, rather,it is complementation.
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