Are you getting married soon or are you just married? You need to know the following facts about love in marriage from the perspective of your spouse.
1. What men call Love. The way your spouse sees love in relation to sex is quite different from the way you see it. Men see love as; Good Food, Good Sex, Submission, Financial Support, Respect, Ego Boosting, Care For Him, Loving His Mum, Acceptance of His Family, Romance, Good House and Neat Children. If you really want to show love to your husband, do not hesitate to do all these.
2. Husband Love Grouping. Until you understand the kind of man you marry, you may not be able to handle him very well. Note this, you need not fight your husband, you just need to understand him.
3. Romantic Men. These men see love as sex, they feel you have committed the greatest crime and are ready to use everything to fight you. If you must enjoy marriage with this kind of man, then be ready to satisfy them on the bed. Note that, sex is not optional in marriage, it is a mutual obligation. Never think you will only have it whenever you feel like, if you do that, you will destroy your home because 90% of men fall within this group.
4. Traditional Men: They want you to uphold tradition. They expect you to respect, submit and honour them and their families. They want their food served like their mother used to cook it.
5. Dining Men. They want good and timely food. They may not eat much, but get angry when you delay in serving their food.
6. Family Men. They love members of their families, wants you to respect their cousins, uncles, and nephews and be accountable to them. They expect you to also be ready to respect and serve them.
7. Insecure Men. You must praise-sing and hero-worship them. They resent correction or criticism no matter how constructive.
8. Career Men. They want you to support their businesses, job ministry e.t.c. They expect you to supplement family finance. They may be stingy even to themselves but can spend hours on their job, and can even bring office files home during the weekends.
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