The place of sex in marriage cannot be overemphasised. It is infact, the bedrock of a good communication and understanding in the home. Sexual relationship between a man and his wife will help them to express their innate feelings for each other.
Here are tips for a smooth sexual understanding in marriage:
1. Be informed and have a better understanding about sex.
2. Love your wife as a person.
3. Work on any known fear or problems about sex. For example body odour, mouth odour, discharges etc.
4. Don’t use sex as a weapon against her.
5. Remember the possible implications of sexual intercourse and make adequate provisions for them.
6. Consider your wife – in time of child spacing, menstruation, sickness, sadness/ emotional disorder etc.
7. Use condom and other family planning devices strictly on Doctor’s advice.
8. Identify the sensitive female sexual parts- the vagina, clitoris, and breast.
9. Start the arousal (use sweet words and tender touches) many hours before the time.
10. Avoid harsh words, arguments or discussions that will change the mood.
11. Avoid/ reduce distractions. For example by the children, noise of the bed, unlocked door.
12. Protect her privacy.
13. Know the most sensitive part of her body that arouses her. Let her show you.
14. Practise self control, try to arouse her enough before intercourse. This is foreplay. E.g kissing, hugging, petting, touching, undressing each other.
15. Say some lovely words to her during the intercourse and play for a while (even after ejaculation) before the withdrawal.
16. Don’t be in haste, let her enjoy it also.
17. Watch the position used and assess the comfortability.
18. When all things fail, pray!
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