Approximately 50% of all Matrimony fail and many of those don’t even make it past the first year. Understanding why these Matrimony fail can be key to ensuring that your own Marriages does not fail. Some factors that contribute to the failure of a Matrimony include a lack of communication or poor communication, financial issues and even the circumstances of the Wedlock. All of these issues can exist in a healthy and enduring Matrimony but if they are not dealt with properly they can lead to the failure of the Matrimony.
Communication is critical to the success of a Wedlock. Without proper communication, conflict resolution becomes a difficult issue. If the couple lacks the communication skills necessary to sort out their troubles, then even the smallest problems will become insuperable[/. Communication allows a relationship to [spin]grow and thrive by giving the partners an opportunity to share their dreams, fears, hopes and wants with each other. Without sharing in this way a couple will not grow as close together as possible. Communication also gives the couple a healthy way to resolve their arguments. If one or both partners lack effective communications skills it becomes difficult to resolve arguments because the couple is not able to understand each other’s points of view. If the Matrimony is already in trouble, both partners in the Matrimony must be dedicated to working on their communication skills in order to improve or salvage their Wedlock. The lack of effective communication techniques can lead to the failure of a Matrimony.
Love may conquer all but sometimes even love isn’t enough to save a Wedlock when there are significant fiscal concerns. While fiscal concerns in and of themselves may not be the cause of a failed Marriages the tension that financial concerns create is often the culprit in a failed Wedlock. Money concerns can be a heavy burden to bear and when a spouse is struggling to meet their financial obligations, there can be a great amount of force in the relationship. This pressure may be enough to destroy an otherwise healthy Wedlock. If one of the partners in the Wedlock becomes obsessed with the marital finances they can begin to neglect other aspects of the Marriages. This ignoring behavior has the affect of making the spouse feel ignored and lonely which can be damaging to a Marriages. Often one of the partners will become consumed with the fiscal affairs and this can be very damaging to a Wedlock. **REPRINT** Is marriage a failure?
Even the conditions surrounding the Wedlock can lead to its failure.Lasting Love: How to Avoid Marital Failure
. A Marriages of convenience is often not a healthy Marriages. When the decision to wed is based on something other than true love, it is likely that the Wedlock will fail. Some examples of Matrimony circumstances that often lead to failure are getting married because there is a baby on the way or because the couple is feeling pressure to get married by friends and family members. Neither of these reasons are truly valid grounds for marriage and often leads to divorce. When a couple marries for reasons other than true love the marriage is often doomed before it starts. Marrying too young is another reason why many marriage fail. While the right age to marry varies greatly depending on the person, many people argue that the teens and early twenties are too early to get wedded. Getting wedded before you have had a chance to enjoy many of life’s experiences can result in resentfulness in the Matrimony and can be the cause of failure of the Matrimony.
Another reason why most Wedlock fail is that society no longer places importance on the institution of Matrimony. Today it is common for couples to live together and have children without being love. This degeneration of society reduces Wedlock and results in a higher percentage of failed Wedlock. With so little value placed on Marriages in today’s society, couples are not committed to making their Matrimony work and are often quick to give up on the Matrimony and each other.
Communication is critical to the success of a Wedlock. Without proper communication, conflict resolution becomes a difficult issue. If the couple lacks the communication skills necessary to sort out their troubles, then even the smallest problems will become insuperable[/. Communication allows a relationship to [spin]grow and thrive by giving the partners an opportunity to share their dreams, fears, hopes and wants with each other. Without sharing in this way a couple will not grow as close together as possible. Communication also gives the couple a healthy way to resolve their arguments. If one or both partners lack effective communications skills it becomes difficult to resolve arguments because the couple is not able to understand each other’s points of view. If the Matrimony is already in trouble, both partners in the Matrimony must be dedicated to working on their communication skills in order to improve or salvage their Wedlock. The lack of effective communication techniques can lead to the failure of a Matrimony.
Love may conquer all but sometimes even love isn’t enough to save a Wedlock when there are significant fiscal concerns. While fiscal concerns in and of themselves may not be the cause of a failed Marriages the tension that financial concerns create is often the culprit in a failed Wedlock. Money concerns can be a heavy burden to bear and when a spouse is struggling to meet their financial obligations, there can be a great amount of force in the relationship. This pressure may be enough to destroy an otherwise healthy Wedlock. If one of the partners in the Wedlock becomes obsessed with the marital finances they can begin to neglect other aspects of the Marriages. This ignoring behavior has the affect of making the spouse feel ignored and lonely which can be damaging to a Marriages. Often one of the partners will become consumed with the fiscal affairs and this can be very damaging to a Wedlock. **REPRINT** Is marriage a failure?
Even the conditions surrounding the Wedlock can lead to its failure.Lasting Love: How to Avoid Marital Failure
. A Marriages of convenience is often not a healthy Marriages. When the decision to wed is based on something other than true love, it is likely that the Wedlock will fail. Some examples of Matrimony circumstances that often lead to failure are getting married because there is a baby on the way or because the couple is feeling pressure to get married by friends and family members. Neither of these reasons are truly valid grounds for marriage and often leads to divorce. When a couple marries for reasons other than true love the marriage is often doomed before it starts. Marrying too young is another reason why many marriage fail. While the right age to marry varies greatly depending on the person, many people argue that the teens and early twenties are too early to get wedded. Getting wedded before you have had a chance to enjoy many of life’s experiences can result in resentfulness in the Matrimony and can be the cause of failure of the Matrimony. Another reason why most Wedlock fail is that society no longer places importance on the institution of Matrimony. Today it is common for couples to live together and have children without being love. This degeneration of society reduces Wedlock and results in a higher percentage of failed Wedlock. With so little value placed on Marriages in today’s society, couples are not committed to making their Matrimony work and are often quick to give up on the Matrimony and each other.
Most Matrimony today are doomed before they even begin. Wedlock is no longer seen as a necessary step in a relationship so many couples are quick to divorce without making an true effort to resolve their problems. Communication breakdown, financial problems as well as circumstances of the Matrimony are all problems that can cause many Wedlock to fail.
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