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Thursday, April 28, 2011

Entering Into A Love Relationship? 3 Tips You Should Know Before Hand

How To Have A Great Relationship: 96 Tips For Turning A Healthy Relationship Into The Perfect Relationship
If you are in a relationship right now, or are thinking of going into one, then, you need to read this article. The article is about 3 very important tips you should know before getting into a relationship; and questions you should ask yourself before you ever get yourself into a relationship. First, happiness is a state of mind, your partner does not owe you your happiness. Second, love your partner for who they are. Third, don’t be over-obsessive. At the end of the article, you will know the tips that could save you from a lot of heartache and pain when you are involved in a love relationship. 

(1) Your lover does not owe you your happiness, peace or joy. Before you go into any type of relationship, ask yourself these questions: "Do I really, really, really know how to walk away from disappointment and fear? Will I be able to find the person that I am now even after I go into this relationship and begin a new way of life?" In short, you should not be dependent on your partner on your emotional needs. Happiness is a state of mind we choose to have. All of your happiness, and all of your suffering, are created by you and they do not come from outside of you, or from others. You yourself are responsible for your own feelings and creating positive experiences for both your partner and you whenever you are together.

(2) Love your partner for who they are. No one in this world is perfect. One day you will find your partner doing certain things or saying certain things that will hurt you, disappoint you or anger you. Before you go into any type of relationship, you have to ask yourself: "Will I be able to love my partner for who they are. If I am unhappy or angry with something they have said or done, will I be able to recognize my unhappiness or anger as against their speech, actions and behavior, and not against their persons?" 

(3) Will I be able to love myself as much as I love my partner? If you cannot love yourself, how are you going to give love to another? This is a mistake most people make when they go into a relationship. They become over-obsessive with what they can give to their partners and what they can do for their partners. To ensure a fulfilling relationship, you have to learn to take care of your own needs as well. A true partner or lover is one who will make sure that you do not become too dependent on them. You are responsible for your own feelings and your own emotional needs too. You are a beautiful being. So, take care of yourself, love yourself, treat yourself to all the good things in life too, and do the same to your partner. Very soon you will find true love always coming your way without any effort on your part!

Answering some of the questions raised in this article, will set you on your way to having a very good and fulfilling relationship which is sure to lead to marriage success. Be honest with yourself in dealing with these questions and with issues that might come up in your relationship. Being honest will only allow you to give direction to you relationship.
As always, if you are encountering problems in your relationship, try to dissolve all of your problems in love. And you'll be sure you are on your way to a peaceful and fulfilling relationship!Tips for Getting Your Relationship On Track 



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