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Tuesday, December 28, 2010

10 Sure Fire Tips for Meeting New People Part One

In order to meet new people, you have to get out and make yourself available to new acquaintances.  It’s highly unlikely that you will meet many people while sitting alone in your living room watching television or playing video games.  It’s one thing to want to meet new people but it is quite another thing to actually start meeting new people.  If you really desire to start meeting some new people try making an effort to go out at least 4 nights a week and engage in an activity that you enjoy. 

If you enjoy reading, libraries and book stores are your best bet for meeting people with similar interests.  You can spend a weekend day or an evening perusing the racks at a local library or book store.  Make sure to spend the majority of your time searching in sections that you enjoy but spend your time people watching instead of reading.  You are more likely to meet someone with similar interests if you stick to what you like.  If you notice someone looking at a book you have read or were planning to read, be bold and approach them.  Using the book as a conversation starter gives you a starting point. 

If you enjoy a physical activity such as running, make an effort to visit local stores that sell sneakers in an effort to meet new people.  Since running is a subject that you are knowledgeable about and enjoy you may find yourself in a situation where you are able to offer your opinion or advice.  For example if you notice someone who seems to be struggling to decide between two running shoes, don’t hesitate to jump in an offer your opinion.  If you are knowledgeable about a subject most people will appreciate your opinion so offering advice about your area of expertise is one surefire tip for meeting new people. 

Visiting local art museums and taking an interest in a specific piece of art can be a surefire tip for meeting new people.  Chose your favorite piece of art and spend a little time lingering near this exhibit.  If you spend enough time by your favorite exhibit, you are bound to overhear someone else admiring the art.  You can take this opportunity to strike up a conversation about why you like the exhibit as well and offer your interpretation of the piece. 

Joining a volunteer group for a cause you support is another surefire way to meet new people.  You will meet many people who feel passionately about the same cause and will instantly have something to talk about.  Additionally these groups often organize many projects and joining different committees will allow you to not only help out the group but also meet a variety of new people in the process.

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